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    Dear 24 year old me

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    • Dear 24 year old me

      Dear 24 year old me
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    Sister Hood & Sister Codes

    Sister Hood & Sister Codes



    I wanted to talk about how much I love how my first project came to life but I’m going to change this post up and talk about 5 sister code or basically things “I” would like to see happen between girls/ladies/women.

    Okay let’s go . See this are all my opinions and I hope they do not at all offend but inspire someone not the other way around.

    • Supporting each other.

    The first thing that every woman should try and actually do is support another woman . Seriously it is so much better than hating another woman’s hustle knowing that you also are hustling and you may or may not someday need someone to support you or just respect your hustle. It’s already hard enough making it in a man’s world ( I actually don’t like this saying much but you get the gists)

    • You don’t have to be besties to smile to another lady

    Oh we all have been in that situation where you’ll be somewhere and some girl you don’t know entirely gives you the eye like you just stepped on her new shoes or you’re sleeping with her man . No seriously guys there’s so much more in life than that , hating on someone actually is stressful so let’s practice this while you’re out or even online instead of sending negative vibes towards another lady compliment  her on her shoes /hair/purse/even TOES for chrissake lol or you know just smile and move along .

    • Do not stop being friends with your girl just because you found a man.

    I get it I have not been in a serious relationship ever and maybe I don’t understand this  , but I’ve seen people go ahead and drop their friends just because they have a man In the picture because really ? While you’re dropping off all your friends he will be going to watch football on Friday night with his boys while you don’t even have someone to talk to and I think having a friendship with even one person is very important besides your bf/fiancé/husband.


    We have all made mistakes in life okay maybe not everyone , I have and I regret things i have  done and I know I was OMG so stupid and young okay let me stop this is not confession 101. So as I was saying find your own man don’t go to someone’s relationship just because you’re itched to do some damage to a couple having it going on for them. That’s ridiculous and okay so let’s say you go ahead knowing someone has a girlfriend but you feel like sticking your nose and vagina into things that aren’t yours, He leaves the girl for you then ya’ll will live happily ever after ? NO he will  cheat on you with another chic , LIKE how he did it with YOU. So don’t ,it’s really not worth getting yourself into that mess .  And ladies that are sleeping with married  men with kids oh don’t get me started.

    • Hate , Hate , Hate.

    A friend of mine few days back tweeted how to get over and tolerate someone who is currently saying mean bad things about you that aren’t true . Seriously one of the hardest things ever is trying to not mind someone talking shit about you especially things that aren’t true or even if they’re true . What do we get by talking and hating on another lady ? Wake up, do a run, drink your tea, and keep your mind into important things in life like bettering yourself ,your love life,or getting your money right because that’s what’s important in life . Trying to bring hate and negativity won’t make your life better you’ll just be a shitty person with a shitty person and nobody likes that .

    Okay I’m done for the day I wish you all an amazing weekend I hope you liked my first project that I did awhile back when we were at kitengela glass house . The place is magical and you can literally come up with so many ideas for photoshoots if I’m ever to do an editorial for a fashion magazine I’m definitely going there for the weekend .

    Thank you to my friends Marie, Hawa and Kish for allowing me to dress them up and direct them at my first project and a huge thank you to my friend , business partner and photographer Jodie of THEBONGOLESE for putting my idea to life . It’s such an amazing feeling to be around people who think and understand your creativity.

    Enjoy the rest of the pictures and have a great weekend.







    1. mariana
      August 31, 2016 / 3:38 pm

      All women should read this wooooww❤❤

      • lehautestyle
        August 31, 2016 / 4:39 pm

        Thank you for reading .xx

    2. Ramlat hassan
      February 10, 2017 / 11:19 am

      I love love love every single word on this particular blog. Definitely visit my blog In Sha Allah. Love you girl

      • lehautestyle
        March 2, 2017 / 2:18 pm

        Thank You Ramlat

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